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Reconciliation Leaders for a Culture of Peace

  • Are you a religious or community leader wanting to learn how to reconcile conflict in family, community, national or global challenges?
  • Are you ready to gain leadership experience based on mission-focused, trauma-informed and resiliency combined with an academic curriculum?
  • Are you an elder or wisdom figure that could contribute to restore faith in humanity during our community, national and international crisis?

Reconciliation Leadership, founded by Virginia Swain, is a peacebuilding and leadership model that integrates spiritual renewal, emotional intelligence, and practical skills to foster trust, collaboration, and sustainable solutions in global and community conflicts. The significance of the Reconciliation Leadership model lies in its ability to bridge the gap between inner spiritual transformation and outer systemic change. The model provides a unique framework for resolving seemingly “intractable” conflicts by focusing on six key areas:

  • Integrated transformation: We require leaders to build trust and peace simultaneously at the personal, interpersonal and collective levels. The spiral process (see image below) ensures that a leader’s inner peace serves as the foundation of global stability.
  • Healing the cycle of violence: The model is significant for its Sacred Container methodology, which moves beyond mediation to address the psychological and spiritual root causes of conflict–transforming injured-injurer dynamics into cycles of healing through mourninng, re-humanizing the enemy and forgiveness.
  • Empowering political will: unlike top-down diplomacy, this model empowers those most affected by a conflict to become the primary decison=makers. It redefines political will as the “will of the people”, providing a practical toolkit for groups to move beyond self interest toward the common good.
  • Addressing the global problematique: The model is specifically designed a post-September 11 world to handle the complex, interconnected global issues appearing locally, that sovereign stages cannot resolve alone. Historic ethnic conflict and systemic institutional failures can be addressed through this model.
  • The framework emphasises the necessity of inner stillness and personal reflection in the pursuit of community and global peace. The methodology for building community is done through artistic expression and systems thinking, moving beyond self-interest toward a shared global consciousness. Key components include accountability, the use of future imagery to motivate present action, and the integration of personal mission with systemic change. Influenced by figures such as Dag Hammarskjöld and Quaker elder Elise Boulding.
  • The Reconciliation Leadership curriculum teaches individuals how to navigate resistant systems by fostering trust and collective problem-solving. Ultimately, these leaders are practical idealists who balance professional service with a commitment to spiritual and emotional well-being.

History of Reconciliation Leadership here.

Virginia Swain approaches building trust as a foundational requirement for sustainable peace and effective leadership. Her methodology, Reconciliation Leadership, emphasizes that trust must be built simultaneously at the personal, interpersonal, and collective levels–a spiral process as shown in the logo (click below on the spiral to expand) where the personal work is interdependent with the collective work.  Reconciliation Leaders learn how to build trust which strengthens a community’s ability to discern, work, and act together.  The Reconciliation Leadership Program practiced at the United Nations for 30 years isow offered to emerging and seasoned leader to stabilize and empower organizations to develop leaders to learn reconciliation methodology to heal historic and current challenges. Reconciliation Leaders offer wisdom, emotional balance, and inner peace in troubled times.


Reconciliation Leaders are practical idealists who use a systems approach and a toolbox to facilitate reconciling environments for challenges— family, community, organization, national or global. We provide the cohesion necessary to live through these challenging times.

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The Reconciliation Leadership Certificate Program provides tools, techniques and vocational mentoring for personal, interpersonal, systemic and global skills for emerging and seasoned leaders. 

Reconciliation Leadership training is available through the basic and advanced reconciliation program.

Reconciliation Leadership Certificate Program

The Reconciliation Leadership Program Overview

All applicants must have a prior discussion with Virginia Swain to ensure resonance with the program’s values and ideals. 

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How Is the Reconciliation Leadership Program Taught?

The learning methodology of Reconciliation Leaders provides personal, interpersonal, systemic and global competency building — integrated with mission-focused training. Participant leaders learn new skills and develop their own mission statement with sensitive and skilled guidance.  Unresolved trauma is addressed so that the Reconciliation Leader can offer trauma-informed interventions. The program is unique because it helps leaders tap their internal strengths to better promote peaceful resolutions to conflict. The approach has broad applications to family feuds, community and national disputes, and even global challenges. The methods learned are useful to professional and international peacemakers as well as anyone interested in creating a just, sustainable, multiethnic and intercultural world community. Participants from all sectors are welcome and may participate in the full program or take an individual course.  For more, here.


“By going through the steps of the Reconciliation Leadership program, I have learned to listen within for insights and directions and to trust my inner fortitude.  That’s a big plus, indeed, with enhanced confidence as part of the inner journey.”  – Gilles Asselin, Reconciliation Leader and International Consultant, Princeton, New Jersey

“When I first began work with the Reconciliation Leadership Certificate Program through Virginia Swain’s Institute for Global Leadership, I had no idea that my part in global peace would become so personal.  My first global peace assignment was ME.  I came to the Institute as a die-hard academic filled with intellectual arrogance.  After all, I had PhD in International Human Rights Law!  But I still did not have inner-peace—the most important foundation to contribute to unity with our global sojourners.  As I journeyed with Virginia’s vision, I found inner-peace resided in me.” – Carolana Callaway, PhD, Reconciliation Leader, Nashville, Tennessee

“I met Virginia soon after 9/11 as I was looking for help to articulate and live out my heart’s calling.  As an American Muslim woman, I experienced myself as a container of the conflict in the world around me.  America and Islam were being defined as being at odds, and yet, both make me who I am.  I knew that I needed to bring these dimensions of me into harmony, and that I wanted to be a peace-builder.  I began one-on-one coaching with Virginia, and then entered her certificate program in Reconciliation Leadership. Since then, Virginia has been a lifeline, an important mentor and guide.  Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, and to me, among her most beautiful qualities is her dedication to prayer.  This commitment to her own spirituality and connection to God is captured in this book, in which she lives from the inside out, spirit brought into practice in the world, and inspires me to do the same.  Reconciliation Leadership has reaffirmed for me the importance of being an integrated human being and the strength and necessity of this integration for the practice of leadership.” –Dr. Sarah Sayeed, Reconciliation Leader and Public Servant, New York, New York.

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